Before your appointment
Educational, not medical advice. Pending clinical review.
Bring evidence, not just memory. Note, for the last 1–3 cycles:
- Where the pain is and how bad (0–10) on your worst days.
- When it happens — before/during your period, ovulation, sex, bathroom, or constant.
- What it stops you doing — work, school, sleep, plans.
- Other symptoms: bloating, fatigue, nausea, bowel/bladder changes.
What to say
- "This pain stops me from [working/sleeping]. It is not normal for me."
- "I've tracked it for [N] months. Here is the pattern."
What to ask
- "Could this be endometriosis? What would it take to find out?"
- "Can I get a referral to a specialist?"
- "What are my options if this is dismissed as normal period pain?"
If you're not heard
You can ask for the refusal to be noted in your record, or seek a second opinion. Your documented history is your strongest tool.